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How can you tell if your marriage is headed toward divorce?

On Behalf of | Oct 12, 2022 | Divorce

All marriages face tough times. But if you feel like your relationship with your spouse has become toxic, you might be wondering if it’s time to seek divorce. After all, you don’t want to be trapped in a marriage that’s harmful to your physical, emotional or psychological well-being.

The decision whether to dissolve your marriage is a major one, and only you know whether it’s the best move for you. However, there are some telltale signs that divorce might be right for you. With that in mind, let’s look at some indications that your marriage is either already headed toward divorce or should be headed in that direction.

  • Constant criticism: Criticism is going to be found in all marriages to a certain extent, but when that criticism becomes incessant and hurtful, there’s a problem in your marriage. This is especially true if you and your spouse no longer give each other compliments.
  • There’s a lack of respect: All couples argue. But when those disagreements display a lack of respect, you and your spouse may be unable to reconcile your differences. This can cause your marriage to spiral out of control as conflict becomes more constant and amplified.
  • There’s too much silence: Successful marriages require work. To work out your issues with your spouse, you’re going to have to be able to engage in appropriate conversations with them. If you and your spouse can’t even talk to each other, there’s evidence that at least one of you is no longer willing to put in the work necessary to improve your relationship.
  • Online relationships take priority: When your relationship sours, you or your spouse might turn to social media to find connection. When this happens, your marriage will take a backseat, and resentment can build when the other spouse finds out about the online relationships.
  • Lack of intimacy: If there’s no more intimacy in your relationship, whether that be physical or emotional, you and your spouse are probably losing connection to one another. This can be indicative of your marriage falling apart.
  • Addiction has taken over: In far too many marriages, one spouse struggles with an addiction that consumes them. This can create a lot of issues in a marriage, including financial instability and concerns regarding physical and emotional safety. If you’re in that situation, you might need to divorce to protect yourself and your long-term interests.
  • You try to avoid your spouse: Whether it’s staying at work late or going out with your friends as much as possible, avoiding your spouse is a good sign that you’re not satisfied in your marriage and may benefit from a change.
  • Values have changed: If your or your spouse’s values and priorities have changed so much that the no longer align with the other spouse’s priorities, there may be ongoing conflict in the marriage. Divorce may be the only way to give each spouse the time they need to focus on those priorities and values.

Do you need a helping hand along the way?

The thought of seeking divorce can be emotional. But it very well might be the right move for you. It’s understandable if you’re hesitant to take action toward dissolving your marriage, but don’t let your fears of the future cause you to remain stuck in a bad marriage. Instead, you might want to consider discussing the facts of your marriage with an experienced divorce attorney so that you can determine your best course of action. You may find that doing so is the best way to reclaim your life.